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Let me tell you how it came into existence.
I was creating a single landing page to host my offers, but something wasn’t sitting right.
Then the Holy Spirit whispered: “Not this way.”
At first, I resisted. My business brain was telling me I need to create a funnel, structure my offer, add different tiers, and present it in a way that converts. You know how it goes. It’s what we do in business.
Then God reminded me… “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,” declares the Lord. (Isaiah 55:8)
That’s when it hit me: My business isn’t just any business, my methods are not restricted to general marketplace methods. I’m led by the Holy Spirit who is my CEO, and whenever I follow His lead, I’ve always experienced extraordinary outcomes and so have my clients. And when you’re building from a Kingdom foundation, your approach won’t always align with what’s “standard” in the marketplace.
So instead of a typical landing page, you’ve stepped into The Vault—a Spirit lead space designed not just to offer, but to equip.
Here you will learn about Emotional Giants and how and why they impact you as Kingdom leaders. You will also have access to:
✔ Resources to help you identify & slay your emotional giants
✔ Insights to bridge the gap between where you are & where you’re called to be
✔ A space for activation—not just information
This private 1:1 alignment call is for leaders, coaches, and ministry pioneers who are seriously considering The Giant Slayer Experience and want to ensure it’s the right fit for their current season of leadership and growth.
This private 1:1 alignment call is for leaders, coaches, and ministry pioneers who are seriously considering The Giant Slayer Experience and want to ensure it’s the right fit for their current season of leadership and growth.
This private 1:1 alignment call is for leaders, coaches, and ministry pioneers who are seriously considering The Giant Slayer Experience and want to ensure it’s the right fit for their current season of leadership and growth.
I live, love, and value purpose, identity, integrity, contribution, and all things leadership. Here’s a snapshot of my story…
I’m JJ—an introverted, faith-driven Giant Slayer called to equip Kingdom leaders like you to overcome the emotional giants that impact your business, ministry and leadership, and hold you back from fully walking in your anointing.
For nearly a decade, I’ve coached and mentored purpose-driven leaders across three continents—helping them conquer fear-driven behaviours, imposter syndrome, and limiting beliefs so they can step into their next level of self-leadership with confidence, authority, and impact.
I have 20 years experience in the corporate world—working internationally, with C-suite executives, writing global revenue-driving strategies for top tier law firms, and leading change management in areas of leadership, EDI and facilitating strategic transformation.
When I enter a room, I bring the essence of transformation, integrity and leadership with a unique blend of business acumen and coaching expertise from a dynamic, inclusive and faith-fuelled lens.
Whether you’re a leader, coach, or visionary, I’m here to help you slay the giants that have kept you stuck, build unshakable confidence, and step into your next level with Kingdom Audacity.
An emotional giant is a feeling that has grown so big it overshadows your identity, influences your decisions, and distorts your behavior.
When left unchecked, this emotion becomes so deeply rooted that it takes the form of a psychological and spiritual stronghold, manifesting as patterns of behavior that separate you from the leader, business owner, or ministry builder God created you to be.
An emotional giant is any feeling that stands in opposition to your God-given authority, hindering your confidence and Kingdom audacity to fulfill your assignment.
I call these emotions “giants”.
A physical giant dominates through sheer size and presence, making others feel small, weak, and incapable of defeating it. An emotional giant operates in the same way, except instead of physical dominance, it overshadows your thoughts, emotions, and decisions creating an impact on your behaviour and the impact you create in the world.
✔ Here’s what you need to know: An emotional giant is an emotion that has been negatively impacting you for so long it has developed into something that feels big and overshadowing and it controls your thoughts, decisions, and behaviors, keeping you stuck in cycles of self-doubt, fear, and hesitation.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen: You must recognize that while these emotions are negatively showing up for you, they still need to be experienced. Every emotion is legitimate and has a purpose.
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward: The Giant Slayer Breakthrough Session will help you uncover which emotional giant is blocking you, dismantle its power, and create a strategy to break free.
Giants don’t just sit in your emotions—they shape your decisions, your habits, and your future.
Fear will no longer dictate your decisions. You will move in GODfidence and execute boldly, without second-guessing whether you’re “ready” or waiting for the “perfect” moment.
Silence the voice that says, “Who do you think you are to lead at this level?” Dismantle the belief that you are not "qualified enough" or "anointed enough" to carry the vision God has given you.
No more saying “yes” to everyone but yourself even when it costs you your peace, your time. You will break free from external expectations and align your leadership with God's priorities.
You will stop measuring your journey by someone else’s timeline. Having new tools to shift your mindset from comparison to conviction—leading with confidence in the lane God carved out for YOU.
Let go of the exhausting cycle of proving, striving, and controlling your outcomes. Instead of working harder, you will work in divine alignment—where grace, strategy, and excellence meet.
Past disappointments and hidden emotional wounds will no longer shape how you show up. You will heal, release, and move forward with spiritual freedom and clarity—fully available for your next level.
✔ Here’s what you need to know:
Perfectionism, procrastination, people-pleasing, comparison etc, are not just habits or personality traits—they are the symptoms of emotional giants that keep you bound. When left unchallenged, these emotionally driven behaviors become acts of spiritual warfare, subtly working against your calling and Kingdom assignment.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen:
You must recognize that these behaviors are not surface-level struggles but deeply rooted belief systems that shape your thinking and decision-making. Breaking free requires moving beyond foundational spiritual practices (prayer and reading the Word) to the implementation of wisdom—which means interpreting, applying, and embodying the Word in your daily life and leadership.
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward:
The first step is identifying the stronghold that’s been running in the background of your life. Download the free “Slay Your Emotional Giants” self-coaching guide and take your first step toward renewing your mind and shifting your reality.
Your thoughts shape your reality. Many of the barriers we face in leadership, business, and ministry don’t start externally—they begin in the mind. If the enemy plants lies that can influence your actions. We need to know how to shut it down by taking captive every thought and replacing it with the truth of God’s Word and affirming who you are, and who you are not.
Click the button below to reveal a quick tool to help you get started.
For too long, the enemy has whispered lies about who you are, and for too long, we believed it and internalised it. We gave the lies a foothold in our life and a voice that was louder than our own. But it’s time to let God’s truth speak louder than the lies.
Hover over the box that reflects the lie you believed to reveal the truth about who God says you are. Let His words reshape how you see yourself today.
Genesis 16:13 "Then she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, ‘You are the God who sees’; for she said, ‘Have I also here seen Him who sees me?’"
Ephesians 1:11 "In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will."
Ephesians 6:10 "Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might."
Joel 2:25 "So I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten."
Ephesians 1:6 "To the praise of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved."
1 Corinthians 2:16 "For ‘who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct Him?’ But we have the mind of Christ."
Romans 8:37 "Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us."
Luke 1:28 "And having come in, the angel said to her, ‘Rejoice, highly favored one, the Lord is with you; blessed are you among women!’"
Deuteronomy 31:6 "Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you."
Romans 8:38-39 "For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Psalm 139:14 "I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvellous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well."
2 Corinthians 5:17 "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new."
2 Corinthians 6:18 "I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty."
Ephesians 2:10 "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them."
Psalm 68:5 "A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy habitation."
Deuteronomy 31:6 "Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you."
Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope."
Colossians 2:10 "And you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power."
Let them renew your mind.
Let them become the loudest voice in your life.
You are seen. You are loved. You are chosen. And you are free.
It starts as an internal battle but ends up dictating your external reality. Here is an example: of the process
Then the result reinforces the limiting belief and the cycle starts all over again.
✔ Here’s what you need to know: Emotional giants don’t just show up randomly. They follow a cycle—starting as a belief, shaping your thoughts, influencing emotions, dictating behaviors, and creating results that reinforce the original belief.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen: If you don’t disrupt this cycle, it will continue repeating itself. The only way to break free is to change the way you think and respond at the root level (Renew your mind-Romans 12 v 2)
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward: It’s time to activate your identity, rewire your thinking, and step into your next level of Kingdom leadership. Inside the Giant Slayer Signature Experience, you’ll get the strategy, structure, and mindset mastery to move with clarity, confidence, and Kingdom authority.
Now let’s see the emotions that end up fuelling these behaviors.
Once you recognize the cycle, the next step is identifying what’s fueling it. Because behind every stronghold is an emotion—one that has taken root and gained power over time.
Fear → Keeps you stuck in procrastination, self-doubt, avoidance, staying small, waiting for “the right time.”
Rejection → Leads to people-pleasing, isolation, and shrinking yourself, overworking, fear of saying no.
Shame → Manifests as perfectionism, hiding, and self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, downplaying achievements.
Insecurity → Fuels comparison, imposter syndrome, and over-explaining, second-guessing, seeking validation.
Control→ Shows up as overthinking, striving, and refusing to take action until things feel “perfect.”
This is why we are told to renew our minds. But renewal doesn’t happen passively. It requires action. It requires us to do something different—intentionally and consistently.
Prayer and reading the Word are essential, but they are not enough on their own. Renewal demands that we not only hear the truth but apply it, live it, and allow it to rewire how we think, respond, and lead.
Romans 12:2 tells us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, but transformation doesn’t come from inspiration alone—it comes from implementation. James 1:22 reminds us to be doers of the Word, not hearers only.
And this is where many get stuck. They pray, they study, they desire change—but they haven’t been equipped with the tools, strategy, and practical steps to truly shift their thinking and actions.
When someone holds the belief “I’m not good enough,“ or “I’m not enough,” they can experience a mix of deeply rooted emotions that influence their actions and outcomes.
Here are some of the primary emotions that typically arise:
“For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.”
2 Corinthians 10:4-5 (NKJV)
Strongholds begin as thought patterns that challenge God’s truth. Fear, doubt, shame, and imposter syndrome oppose the knowledge of God by telling you lies—like “You’re not called,” “You’re not worthy,” or “You’re not capable.” These lies must be SLAYED with the truth of God’s Word.
Salvation is the gateway to healing, but it is not a one-time removal of emotional trauma. Instead, it initiates a process of sanctification, renewal, and transformation. While salvation restores our relationship with God and grants us eternal life (Romans 10:9, Ephesians 2:8-9), emotional healing often requires an ongoing journey of spiritual formation, biblical truth application, and inner work in partnership with the Holy Spirit.
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As a Kingdom leader, the stakes are higher. This isn’t just about business, leadership, or success—it’s about obedience, impact, and God’s glory. When these giants go unchallenged, they don’t just limit you—they limit the move of God through you.
Hesitating to launch? Fear and overthinking → will keep you paralyzed in delay, trapped in disobedience while others receive what was meant to come through you.
Undervaluing your services? Fear of rejection → will have you mislabeling your value, mispositioning your gifts, and withholding what God called you to release.
Constantly questioning yourself? Insecurity → will erode your confidence, making you second-guess your authority and leaving you ineffective in your assignment.
Afraid of being seen? Shame → will silence your voice, block your testimony, and prevent lives from being transformed through what God placed in you.
This is bigger than you. When you stay stuck, people don’t experience Christ through you. The world remains unchanged. And what God placed in you stays buried.
You were not called to play small. You were called to lead, to impact, and to take dominion
He called you to SLAY!
✔ Here’s what you need to know: Emotional giants are not just “personal struggles”—they affect your business, leadership, relationships, and spiritual growth. The longer they go unchallenged, the more they limit what God wants to do through you.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen: You must stop normalizing these struggles and recognize them as barriers that need to be removed. Transformation is a choice.
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward: If you’re serious about stepping fully into your God-given assignment, then it’s time to break free. The Breakthrough Activation Session is designed to help you move from stuck to strategic action in 90 minutes. [Book now.]
Giants are not just emotions—they become barriers between you and your calling, taking on the nature of spiritual battles that can form strongholds in your life if left unchallenged.
Ready To Break the cycle and shift the outcome?
You’ve identified your giants. You’ve seen how they’ve shaped your thoughts, dictated your behaviors, and kept you from fully stepping into what God has called you to do. But awareness alone doesn’t create transformation—ACTIVE faith.
Not everyone will be ready to take this next step. Some will see their giants and retreat, choosing to stay where it’s familiar.
Others will acknowledge the battle but tell themselves “Maybe later” and wait for the Giants to come back around all over again.
But if you’re still reading this, and every word is speaking directly to you—if you recognize yourself in what has been explained—then you are the Giant Slayer I’m speaking to.
This is for you.
You’ve identified your giants. You’ve seen how they’ve shaped your thoughts, dictated your behaviors, and kept you from fully stepping into what God has called you to do. But as you know, information alone doesn’t shift your reality—decisive action does.
This is where most people stop. You won’t.
Most people keep circling the same patterns, overthinking the same fears, and shrinking their obedience down to comfort.
But you know you aren’t called to stay in cycles—you’re called to take serve at a high level.
You are a leader. A builder. A Kingdom-driven visionary. You’re clear of your assignment—the only question is…
You are NOT called to sit in cycles of overthinking, comparing the success of your calling to the results of others, or sitting in an undesirable situation feeling stuck when your calling is well within reach.
You were made for movement.
And the Lord said to Moses, ‘Why do you cry to Me? Tell the children of Israel to go forward.’–Exodus 14:15
Sometimes we wait for clarity when God is waiting for us to step forward. Movement activates faith.
But as the Lord spoke to the Israelites in Horeb, saying: ‘You have dwelt long enough at this mountain. Turn and take your journey…’ – Deuteronomy 1:6-7
It’s your turn to look at your life right now. How long have you been circling the same mountain?
How many divine opportunities have you hesitated to take?
How many moments have you felt the nudge to move, but fear held you back?
The enemy is afriad of what’s inside of you and wants to keep you in delay…
What will bring the best of you out right now?
Proverbs 11:14
In this 90-minute deep-dive session, we go straight to the root—identifying, dismantling, and creating a personalized strategy to Slay the Goliath-sized limiting belief that’s standing in the way of progress.
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