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This is where leaders, visionaries, and Kingdom builders uncover the giants that have been limiting their faith, confidence, and leadership. If you are here, you are not just called—you are chosen to have dominion, it's time to TAKE IT!
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What Is An
Emotional Giant?
Strongholds That Keep
You Stuck
The Cycle of
Emotional Giants
The Cost if You Don't
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What Is An Emotional Giant?
An emotional giant is a feeling that has grown so big it overshadows your identity, influences your decisions, and distorts your behavior.
When left unchecked, this emotion becomes so deeply rooted that it takes the form of a psychological and spiritual stronghold, manifesting as patterns of behavior that separate you from the leader, business owner, or ministry builder God created you to be.
An emotional giant is any feeling that stands in opposition to your God-given authority, hindering your confidence and Kingdom audacity to fulfill your assignment.
I call these emotions “giants”.
Definition of a Giant:
- A being of great size and strength (historically referenced in mythology, folklore, and biblical accounts).
- A person, thing, or force that is unusually large, powerful, or dominant.
- Something that towers over everything else in its presence, often creating fear or intimidation.
Physical Giants V Emotional Giants
- ✔ A physical giant stands in your way, blocking your path.
- ✔ An emotional giant stands in your mind, blocking your progress.
- ✔ A physical giant is defeated through external battle.
- ✔ An emotional giant is defeated through internal victory—by confronting and dismantling the beliefs that give it power.
A physical giant dominates through sheer size and presence, making others feel small, weak, and incapable of defeating it. An emotional giant operates in the same way, except instead of physical dominance, it overshadows your thoughts, emotions, and decisions creating an impact on your behaviour and the impact you create in the world.
📌 Battle plan framework
✔ Here’s what you need to know: An emotional giant is an emotion that has been negatively impacting you for so long it has developed into something that feels big and overshadowing and it controls your thoughts, decisions, and behaviors, keeping you stuck in cycles of self-doubt, fear, and hesitation.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen: You must recognize that while these emotions are negatively showing up for you, they still need to be experienced. Every emotion is legitimate and has a purpose.
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward: The Giant Slayer Breakthrough Session will help you uncover which emotional giant is blocking you, dismantle its power, and create a strategy to break free.
Giants don’t just sit in your emotions—they shape your decisions, your habits, and your future.
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Strongholds That Keep You Stuck
Here are some of the Behaviours Caused by emotional giants that need to be slayed...
Perfectionism
This giant convinces you that if you just tweak, refine, and overthink a little more, you’ll be safe from failure or judgment. But perfectionism is a fear-driven delay that keeps you stuck in preparation instead of action.
Procrastination
That inner voice that whispers, “What if you fail? What if it’s not good enough?”—keeping you delaying, avoiding, and overthinking. This giant convinces you to wait until you feel “ready,” stealing time, opportunities, and momentum.
People-Pleasing
This giant fuels the need to say “yes” to everyone else, even when it costs you your peace, your time, and your alignment with God’s priorities. It makes you act on approval from others as if they matter more to you than obeying God.
Comparison
You’ve been caught in the trap of measuring your life against others, doubting your own journey. This giant robs your focus, your confidence, and your ability to trust God’s unique plan for you.
Unforgiveness
Unhealed wounds from others or yourself are holding you captive. This is keeping you in a cycle of resentment and self-sabotage, making you believe that letting go is weakness when it's key to freedom.
Burnout
You’ve been running on empty, overworking and over-serving trying to prove your worth. This giant steals your joy, drains your energy, and makes you believe rest is laziness when it’s actually your weapon.
📌 Battle plan framework
✔ Here’s what you need to know:
Perfectionism, procrastination, people-pleasing, comparison etc, are not just habits or personality traits—they are the symptoms of emotional giants that keep you bound. When left unchallenged, these emotionally driven behaviors become acts of spiritual warfare, subtly working against your calling and Kingdom assignment.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen:
You must recognize that these behaviors are not surface-level struggles but deeply rooted belief systems that shape your thinking and decision-making. Breaking free requires moving beyond foundational spiritual practices (prayer and reading the Word) to the implementation of wisdom—which means interpreting, applying, and embodying the Word in your daily life and leadership.
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward:
The first step is identifying the stronghold that’s been running in the background of your life. Download the free “Slay Your Emotional Giants” self-coaching guide and take your first step toward renewing your mind and shifting your reality.
The Cycle of Emotional Giants
It starts as an internal battle but ends up dictating your external reality. Here is an example: of the process
Belief: "I’m not good enough."
Thought:"Nobody will listen to me."
Emotion:Fear & self-doubt.
Behavior: Avoids showing up, procrastinates, second-guesses every move.
Result: Stays invisible, misses opportunities, struggles to attract clients, and loses momentum.
Then the result reinforces the limiting belief and the cycle starts all over again.
📌 Battle plan framework
✔ Here’s what you need to know: Emotional giants don’t just show up randomly. They follow a cycle—starting as a belief, shaping your thoughts, influencing emotions, dictating behaviors, and creating results that reinforce the original belief.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen: If you don’t disrupt this cycle, it will continue repeating itself. The only way to break free is to change the way you think and respond at the root level (Renew your mind-Romans 12 v 2)
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward: It’s time to activate your identity, rewire your thinking, and step into your next level of Kingdom leadership. Inside the Giant Slayer Signature Experience, you’ll get the strategy, structure, and mindset mastery to move with clarity, confidence, and Kingdom authority.
Now let’s see the emotions that end up fuelling these behaviors.
Once you recognize the cycle, the next step is identifying what’s fueling it. Because behind every stronghold is an emotion—one that has taken root and gained power over time.
The Emotions Behind These Giants Include...
Fear → Keeps you stuck in procrastination, self-doubt, avoidance, staying small, waiting for “the right time.”
Rejection → Leads to people-pleasing, isolation, and shrinking yourself, overworking, fear of saying no.
Shame → Manifests as perfectionism, hiding, and self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, downplaying achievements.
Insecurity → Fuels comparison, imposter syndrome, and over-explaining, second-guessing, seeking validation.
Control→ Shows up as overthinking, striving, and refusing to take action until things feel “perfect.”
Can you spot some of the giants my clients have SLAYED?
One belief can shape your entire future.
This is why we are told to renew our minds. But renewal doesn’t happen passively. It requires action. It requires us to do something different—intentionally and consistently.
Prayer and reading the Word are essential, but they are not enough on their own. Renewal demands that we not only hear the truth but apply it, live it, and allow it to rewire how we think, respond, and lead.
Romans 12:2 tells us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds, but transformation doesn’t come from inspiration alone—it comes from implementation. James 1:22 reminds us to be doers of the Word, not hearers only.
And this is where many get stuck. They pray, they study, they desire change—but they haven’t been equipped with the tools, strategy, and practical steps to truly shift their thinking and actions.
Renewing your mind means:
- Challenging and dismantling limiting beliefs that keep you stuck
- Reprogramming thought patterns to align with Kingdom truth
- Coaching yourself through doubt, fear, and hesitation
- Taking intentional action toward the life and leadership you were called to walk in
Let's Look At The Emotions That Stem from the belief, "I'm Not Good Enough"
When someone holds the belief “I’m not good enough,“ or “I’m not enough,” they can experience a mix of deeply rooted emotions that influence their actions and outcomes.
Here are some of the primary emotions that typically arise:
- Fear– Fear of failure, fear of judgment, fear of disappointing others.
- Self-Doubt – Constant questioning of one’s own worth, ability, or readiness.
- Shame – Feeling unworthy, inadequate, or embarrassed about perceived flaws.
- Insecurity – Comparing oneself to others and feeling lesser than.
- Anxiety – Overanalysing every action, fearing rejection or negative outcomes.
- Hopelessness – A sense that no matter what is done, it won’t be good enough.
- Guilt – Feeling like they should be doing more or that they are letting people down.
- Frustration – Feeling stuck and incapable of breaking through limitations.
“For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.”
2 Corinthians 10:4-5 (NKJV)
The Key Takeaway:
Strongholds begin as thought patterns that challenge God’s truth. Fear, doubt, shame, and imposter syndrome oppose the knowledge of God by telling you lies—like “You’re not called,” “You’re not worthy,” or “You’re not capable.” These lies must be SLAYED with the truth of God’s Word.
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Salvation Is Not The Same As Sanctification!
Salvation is the gateway to healing, but it is not a one-time removal of emotional trauma. Instead, it initiates a process of sanctification, renewal, and transformation. While salvation restores our relationship with God and grants us eternal life (Romans 10:9, Ephesians 2:8-9), emotional healing often requires an ongoing journey of spiritual formation, biblical truth application, and inner work in partnership with the Holy Spirit.
Reflection Questions for Kingdom Leaders
- What past experiences might still be influencing how you lead today?
- What past experiences might still be influencing how you lead today?
- How can you intentionally partner with God in your emotional healing journey?
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The Cost of Unchallenged Giants
in Business & Ministry
As a Kingdom leader, the stakes are higher. This isn’t just about business, leadership, or success—it’s about obedience, impact, and God’s glory. When these giants go unchallenged, they don’t just limit you—they limit the move of God through you.
Hesitating to launch? Fear and overthinking → will keep you paralyzed in delay, trapped in disobedience while others receive what was meant to come through you.
Undervaluing your services? Fear of rejection → will have you mislabeling your value, mispositioning your gifts, and withholding what God called you to release.
Constantly questioning yourself? Insecurity → will erode your confidence, making you second-guess your authority and leaving you ineffective in your assignment.
Afraid of being seen? Shame → will silence your voice, block your testimony, and prevent lives from being transformed through what God placed in you.
This is bigger than you. When you stay stuck, people don’t experience Christ through you. The world remains unchanged. And what God placed in you stays buried.
You were not called to play small. You were called to lead, to impact, and to take dominion
He called you to SLAY!
📌 Battle Plan Framework
✔ Here’s what you need to know: Emotional giants are not just “personal struggles”—they affect your business, leadership, relationships, and spiritual growth. The longer they go unchallenged, the more they limit what God wants to do through you.
✔ Here’s the shift that needs to happen: You must stop normalizing these struggles and recognize them as barriers that need to be removed. Transformation is a choice.
✔ Here’s how I can help you move forward: If you’re serious about stepping fully into your God-given assignment, then it’s time to break free. The Breakthrough Activation Session is designed to help you move from stuck to strategic action in 90 minutes. [Book now.]
Giants are not just emotions—they become barriers between you and your calling, taking on the nature of spiritual battles that can form strongholds in your life if left unchallenged.
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Your Next Move Be clear that knowledge alone won’t break the cycle—action will.
You’ve identified your giants. You’ve seen how they’ve shaped your thoughts, dictated your behaviors, and kept you from fully stepping into what God has called you to do. But awareness alone doesn’t create transformation—ACTIVE faith.
Not everyone will be ready to take this next step. Some will see their giants and retreat, choosing to stay where it’s familiar.
Others will acknowledge the battle but tell themselves “Maybe later” and wait for the Giants to come back around all over again.
But if you’re still reading this, and every word is speaking directly to you—if you recognize yourself in what has been explained—then you are the Giant Slayer I’m speaking to.
This is for you.
The Question Now Is: What Will You Do With What You Know?
You’ve identified your giants. You’ve seen how they’ve shaped your thoughts, dictated your behaviors, and kept you from fully stepping into what God has called you to do. But as you know, information alone doesn’t shift your reality—decisive action does.
This is where most people stop. You won’t.
Most people keep circling the same patterns, overthinking the same fears, and shrinking their obedience down to comfort.
But you know you aren’t called to stay in cycles—you’re called to take serve at a high level.
You are a leader. A builder. A Kingdom-driven visionary. You’re clear of your assignment—the only question is…
Are you ready to step into it?
James 2:17 reminds us:
“Faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.”
One thing I can tell you for sure is…
You are NOT called to sit in cycles of overthinking, comparing the success of your calling to the results of others, or sitting in an undesirable situation feeling stuck when your calling is well within reach.
You were made for movement.
And the Lord said to Moses, ‘Why do you cry to Me? Tell the children of Israel to go forward.’–Exodus 14:15
Sometimes we wait for clarity when God is waiting for us to step forward. Movement activates faith.
But as the Lord spoke to the Israelites in Horeb, saying: ‘You have dwelt long enough at this mountain. Turn and take your journey…’ – Deuteronomy 1:6-7
It’s your turn to look at your life right now. How long have you been circling the same mountain?
How many divine opportunities have you hesitated to take?
How many moments have you felt the nudge to move, but fear held you back?
The enemy is afriad of what’s inside of you and wants to keep you in delay…
Which must mean God is signaling to you that it’s time to move.
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"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.
Proverbs 11:14
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Meet The Founder
Hi, I’m JJ,
I live, love, and value purpose, identity, integrity, contribution, and all things leadership. Here's a snapshot of my story...
I’m an introverted, confident, faith-driven Giant Slayer. My gift lies in helping passionate and purpose-driven leaders like you overcome the giants that steal your focus, create self-doubt, and fuel your fears and limiting beliefs that ripple through every aspect of life, and leadership.
For close to a decade, I have been serving as an international certified coach and leadership consultant travelling and serving a global client base across three continents.
I have two decades of experience in the corporate world supporting C Suite leaders, partners and teams, writing revenue-driving strategies, leading teams, and managing change relating to ethnic and cultural diversity.
This unique blend of corporate insight and coaching expertise allows me to help ambitious leaders navigate complex challenges, achieve their goals, elevate their leadership skills, and achieve measurable success—whether they’re striving for breakthrough performance, alignment with their true identity and purpose, or building confidence to lead with authority.
Together, we’ll uncover what’s holding you back, SLAY the giants in your way, and create breakthroughs that ripple across your business, career, and personal growth so you can walk directly into your next level not only with confidence, but with Kingdom Authority and Audacity!
I’m here to help you BE who you’re called to be, DO what you’re called to do, and HAVE the impact, influence, and income that comes when you step fully into your Divine calling.
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